Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the
person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate
the people who love us. We miss out on so many
beautiful things and simply because we allow
ourselves to been slaved by our own selfish
concerns.
Go for the man of deeds and not for the man of
words for you will find rewarding happiness not with
the man you love but the man who loves you more.
The best lovers are those who are capable of loving
from a distance, far enough to allow the person to
grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within
your being. To let go of someone doesn’t mean
you have to stop loving, it only means that you
allow that person to find his own HAPPINESS
without expecting him to come back. Letting go is
not just setting the other person free, but it is also
setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness,
hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.
Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength
and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to
dishearten you, but rather let you grow with
wisdom in bearing it. You may have found peace in
just loving someone from a distance not expecting
anything in return. But be careful, for this can
sustain life but can never give enough room for us
to grow.
We can all survive with just beautiful memories of
the past but real peace and happiness come only
with open acceptance of what reality is today.
There comes a time in our lives when we chance
upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves
getting so intensely attracted to that person. This
feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives
and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.
The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that
this person feels nothing more for us than just
friendship, or the feelings he might have for us is
just too far from how you love him. We start our
desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but
in the end our efforts are still un-rewarded and we
end up being sorry for ourselves.
You don’t have to be bitter on love. What you need
to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality
without being bitter or sorry for yourself Believe
me, you would be better off giving that dedication
and love someone more deserving. Don’t let your
heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind
speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but
also to reason as well. Always remember that if
you lose someone today, it means that someone
better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love it
doesn’t mean that you failed in love. Cry if you
have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away
the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left
with you.
Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back
to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the
love that will stay and last a lifetime.
"When you lose someone… and you think you
were the one who loved most, between the two of
you… he lost more. For someday you can love
someone the way that you loved him…But he will
never be loved again the way you did."